Are you really sexy and single?

So you think your sexy and single? That's great but do you really think you're single and sexy? Do you really believe it or are you perpetrating, frontin' and basically lying to yourself and everyone else? And are you really sexy and are you truly single?

Sexy is defined as attractive, stimulating, appealing and interesting. Another key element of sexiness is confidence. So, while you may think sexy is tight clothes and revealing necklines, are you really sexy or are you playing sexy? How is your confidence level? Get comfortable with yourself and your body. Be fully aware of the balance between your shortcomings and your strong attributes. Sexiness is about evolving and growing through your life. Sexiness is ultimately about energy and you need to know how much you honestly have in order to use the "s" word!

Being single is more than just not being with someone. Are you truly available and ready for a new relationship? Ask yourself if you've let go of that old flame and lingering "ex." If you're still holding on to closure that's never coming, then you're not single. You're just alone. Are you making yourself truly available by going places where single people go or are you tagging along with your old aunt Getrude to her bingo meetings every night? In order to be honestly available, you need to do things that available people do. Allow yourself to be "out there" for people to meet you and discover the greatness you have to offer.